A good leader looks at people’s deeds! Their deeds do not lie! A hard line of assessment is important in every sphere of life. Assess people by the fruits they produce!
Jesus taught us to know people by their fruits and not by what they say.
Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns or figs of thistles? Matthew 7:16
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Everyone says good things about himself and everyone has explanations for what they did not do. “Most men will proclaim everyone his goodness: but a faithful man who can find?” (Proverbs 20:6).
Over the years, I have come to think less and less of what people say. Sometimes, I know the exact explanation that would be given and I have learnt that they are all not true. The only true thing is the evidence and the actions that speak clearly and loudly.
A leader cannot afford to make the childish mistake of trusting just what people say. He must trust what they do! What they do is who they are!
King David judged Joab to be worthy of the position of commander of the armies based on his actions in the war against the Jebusites. “Whoever goes first will be the chief.” Joab went first and became the chief commander of Israel’s armies.
And David and all Israel went to Jerusalem, which is Jebus; where the Jebusites were, the inhabitants of the land. And the inhabitants of Jebus said to David, thou shalt not come hither. Nevertheless, David took the castle of Zion, which is the city of David.
And David said, whosoever smiteth the Jebusites first shall be chief and captain. So Joab the son of Zeruiah went first up and was chief. And David dwelt in the castle; therefore they called it the city of David. 1 Chronicles 11:4-7
You cannot employ someone to work with you who has been disloyal to your fellow minister. That is, one who comes to you with a thousand reasons why things went the way they did, while the evidence that stares at you is the fact that he has not been loyal to his former leader! Why do you work with this person when you have evidence of his treacherous behaviour in his previous position?
Why are you getting married to a beautiful lady who has nice words and beautiful smiles, but quarrels with everyone she works with? Why do you marry this lady who is unable to maintain a good relationship with anyone?
Why do you believe you will receive nice things when you marry her? If the young lady is stubborn at home, why do you believe she is going to be submissive and yielding when she is your wife?
If you are going to war, you cannot afford to ignore evidence, actions and hard facts. If you are going into the ministry, you are going to war! You cannot put your life and everyone’s life into jeopardy by making childish decisions that are based on what you see and hear.
Watch out for how people treat their husbands! That is who they are! If they are nasty, stubborn, rude and wicked to their husbands, that is who they are. Do not believe their beautiful appearance and nice dresses. It is just outward painted!
A leader must depend more on the evidence and the actions of people – not their nice words.
Rubicon River
In the days of the Roman Empire, Roman generals would go out on great campaigns and conquer nations and territories which they added to the empire.
These generals of the old Roman Empire had great armies at their command.
After the battle, the generals would be welcomed in Rome and be celebrated for their great conquests. But they were not to go to Rome with their armies. The presence of these powerful generals with their armies threatened the senate and the government in Rome.
The generals were therefore given a marker beyond which they were not to cross with their armies when they were on the way back to Rome. This marker was the Rubicon River!
The Rubicon River is a small river in the northern part of Italy. Anyone going home was not to cross the Rubicon River with troops. When Julius Caesar was returning from the Battle of Alesia he crossed the Rubicon River with his troops. When the news got to Rome, the experienced men in Rome knew that crossing the Rubicon River was enough evidence of a looming war.
Remember that it is better to judge by the actions that people have taken. Do not just trust what people say about themselves. Trust what they do and remember what they have done! Everybody has a Rubicon River. Don’t take it lightly when somebody crosses the Rubicon River of your life!
The writer is the founder of the Lighthouse Group of Churches.